Blog Train - My Parenting Mantra : Patience and Love

by - June 23, 2017

After being parent, everybody try to give the best of their knowledge to their kids.. We are some awesome bloggers have joined hands together just to share our parenting mantras which might help you to some extent. Thank you Sabika from momsmethods.com and Nayantara from mommyingbabyt.com for introducing me! So guys, today I will share my parenting mantra with all of you... 

Meet all the fabulous mom bloggers who are part of this blog train HERE!


Parenting is such a beautiful phase of life but it is equally difficult to handle if not managed in the right way...  It has been four years now, I am in my motherhood phase and trust me it is not less than a rollercoaster life...  Everyday I am learning few new things and enjoying this phase thoroughly...  According to me patience plays a very important role in parenting  specially if this is your first time.  Then unconditional love is also equally important...


Before stepping into my rules or mantras, let me first tell you something regarding my life...  I am a mother of 4years old toddler and my pregnancy was a properly planned one,hence I was all prepare for all the initial parenting challenges.  Through out the nine month the pregnancy was super smooth and beautiful on the other hand.. I got sufficient time to prepare myself for the upcoming phase of life and internet had also helped me to understand things so much...  But when I stepped into the motherhood phase /parenting phase, life changes completely and nothing worked initially... As time passed, I brought changes in my lifestyle ,daily schedule and of course in me .. Now it has been four years and everything is going smoothly and I can't say that I have become a expert in managing everything but I can see a different person inside me in better way of course..

So here I am going to mention few tips which I learn in these four years and which help me a lot through out this amazing journey of parenting...


* Patience - The first thing I had to brought in me is to increase my patience level and trust me it is really necessary.  There were time when I used to frustrate and all credit goes to that sleepless nights, restrictions, crying baby, etc...  Initially we can't hold all these nurtures for longer time but time teach us to handle all these wisely.. Another thing is, you have to control over your anger.. This is sounding funny but quite necessary..

* Sharing is Caring - We have to teach this phrase to kids since the early ages..  Our kids should understand that, through sharing the relationship becomes strong..

* Value of Money - It is very important to teach kids the value of money ...  I personally don't fulfill his all demands. Sometimes I bring him toys as surprise but never buy on his demand...  If we started fulfilling their demands always, then the expectations will increase day by day and they never understand how difficult to earn money and the importance of money in our life..


* Bring some WE time - WE time is really necessary in life... Kids always want special attention, affection and funny time with parents.  Being a blogger, I have to give loads of time to internet, social media, etc.  But I always try to give him quality time.  I always prefer to work after he slept or during his school hours. It's difficult if you are a full time working mother but try to be free from mobile and internet while at home... Me and my son love to play together, run together, draw together.. Kids feel neglected when we work in front of them or not giving time to them which will bring bad effects on their mind slowly..



*Never Give Up - This is the most important thing which I always keep in my mind.. Our kids always take us as their ideal and they always try to follow our steps, hence it is necessary to try to never give up and to teach kids the same..

There are thousands of mantras ,but I do follow these only and trust me life has become so smooth after these ..

Hope you enjoyed reading this post... Now it's time for Jayashree of makeupandbeautyblog.in  to share her parenting mantras... Don't forget to visit her space to reveal her awesome mantras ...

See you in my next post.. Till then bye..

Have a nice day 😊💖


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33 comments

  1. True, more than what we say what we do inspires them. It's very much essential not to loose our cool

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    1. yes... But you know, it is very difficult to be cool all the time...

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  2. Superb one Snigdha... talks about the vices all moms seek so earnestly.

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  3. So true ..... Patience and we time are more crucial factors of happy parenting. Glad to join with you on this blog train.

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    1. Aww.. Thank you for your kind words...

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  4. patience has been my biggest support its impossible to raise a kid without patience..Your points are so relevant and even I had a planned pregnancy and was prepared for challenges but still found it way more challenging

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    1. Yes, same here... Thank you for stopping by..

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  5. You just gave a very important reminder - have patience! I lack it sometimes.

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    1. Even I loose my patience some time... I am glad that you liked the post..

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  6. Patience and love are indeed the best top to raise a happy child

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  7. Parenting indeed is a roller coaster ride and we learn daily. But it's so fulfilling to be a mother .

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  8. Patience is the first requirement of parenting. No alters how well you are prepared, it always gives you surprises.

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  9. These are some great parenting mantras Snigdha. WE TIME and never give up are 2 i have to practice.

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    1. thank you sweety... I am glad you loved the post...

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  10. Loved ur value for money point

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  11. aww.. very nice post. Love is all we have in abundance na..
    and actually teaching them right thing at the right time is so important. value of money is one thing we see missing in kids today

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  12. Very well written posts Snigdha.. Its very important for us to have WE time as a family. Kids value our presence more than presents and we all need to ensure they get enough of our time.

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  13. This is a lovely read Snigdha! The sooner they realize the value of money , the better for us.

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  14. I love the WE time... Agree, it is equally important to the Me time and children absolutely love it.

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  15. Great mantras dear... Specially the Patience one yes it's very important for all parents

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  16. Loved reading ur mantras...There is so much to learn yet...Patience being on the top

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  17. Never Give up.. that's what i try to do. sometimes i d give up but then i try again.. with parenting things aren't always easy

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  18. Loved reading this .. unconditional love is what these little humans need..

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  19. I believe in never giving up :) Loved your post

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  20. These are some great tips. We time is so important. I put away my phone every evening and we just spend time reading, playing, running around the house.

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  21. Agree with every point you mentioned! I like that you have mentioned the most significant and important ones in your post. None of them can be ignored while parenting. It is a demanding and challenging task to parent, but such mantras help bringing things into perspective and also serve as reminders. The 'never give up' point I liked a lot! Thank you :)

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